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The One With all the Division

You know what I get the absolute biggest kick out of in all of this? How many of my "friends" who are apparently only friends with me when I agree with their exact thought process.

The ones who agreed with my LOUD AF CRITICAL THINKING PROCESSES allllll during COVID.

The ones who KNOW that I don't listen now, nor have I ever, to the media and always use my NURSING and LIFE assessment skills in order to form MY OWN opinions and conclusions (that often go against the grain).

The ones who are personally attacking me and saying I'm the problem, when I simply have an open mind and try to look at a situation from a 360 degree lense, instead of blindly following what the people I USUALLY tend to agree with are saying.

The ones who said they were looking forward to reading posts from me because I often said things that others are thinking but aren't brave enough to say out loud. They didn't want to speak out so instead they would privately message me or only like my posts on certain platforms under alias names for "fear" of what others or their jobs will "think". They agreed, but stayed silent and looked to me, and now they get pissed because my opinion differs. Funny.

The ones who know I'd never hand out "misinformation" or viewpoints based on "just complying" or rolling over or being a sheep.
(BTW deliberately handing out misinformation is not the same thing as forming a hypothesis based off of my concrete observations. that is called my viewpoint, perspective, belief, or opinion).
So stop all of you with that ridiculous terminology that if you recall, was used for YEARS by the very side you say you HATE.

If you don't know how my brain works by now, if you don't know that I'm educated enough to do my own research, if you don't know that I DON'T CARE IF YOU AGREE WITH ME OR NOT, then you obviously don't know me at all.

I got criticized for YEARS during and after COVID, even taken to court and left my job. You think NOW I'm just going to be some idiotic sheep with none of my own thoughts? I was criticized by SO many, and thank GOD I did not give in to those telling me I was wrong, because I WAS NOT.

I will always share my observations, my beliefs, my opinions, and I don't care if they fit YOUR narrative or THE narrative or A narrative. Heck, I've been defending my Catholic faith since a middle schooler getting ostracized by mean girls in 7th grade (some who ironically now come on here liking and commenting on my God posts).

And to those who won't drop me or be rude to me just cause my opinion doesn't match up with yours, THANK YOU!

ADPIE: Assessment, Diagonosis, Planning, Intervention, Evaluation

That's how I do nursing, AND THAT IS HOW I DO LIFE.

MY original acronym in my book is based on that method as well. And I'm working on getting it copyrighted, which is why I haven't shared it much.

CRISIS:
Confront the crisis (or issue) and develop coping skills
Reframe thoughts, remove negativity, and reflect
Identify and assess your situation
Set healthy internal and external boundaries
Implement the plan and evaluate effectiveness
Silver linings, smiling, and serotonin

My message for you this Sunday is:
BE YOU, follow GOD, and trust YOUR GUT

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