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The One With Saying What You Mean

Say what you mean and mean what you say. It can work wonders in your life.

I’ve taught my girls since they could talk and emote to always express themselves in a healthy way and not hold things in. I found this video of my now 11yo being able to put her feelings into words better than most adults can at age 3.

My ex and I had been going through a divorce and I knew that she needed to learn healthy coping skills when her “terrible 3s” were not just seeming like normal tantrums. She was confused and angry and missing whichever parent she wasn’t with.

By teaching her to “use her words” and tell me whatever she felt inside, and combining that with prayer and developing a relationship with God at a young age, she was able to learn how to cope in a more healthy way. And now she still uses these techniques years later and has the most beautiful relationship with God and with BOTH parents.

REMEMBER: Divorce affects the kids, too. Make sure you are paying attention to their cues and get help for all of you before they turn their emotions into NEGATIVE or DANGEROUS behaviors 🙏🏻

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