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The One With Dating After Divorce

 Have you been talked into going on a date or a dating app?  I have and it definitely sent me down a dark road so to speak. 

I already had enough “issues” on my own but then going on actual dates just seemed like way too much pressure for something serious that I was not ready for, nor did I want. 

Take more time for yourself with nothing and nobody to distract you or blur your vision so to speak.

You need to heal and respect yourself and be there for your children and their emotions before bringing someone new into your lives.  

If it’s the “right” person, they’ll wait until you’re ready, be supportive and understanding- not give you a guilt trip or tell you how you should feel as so many mansplained to me.  

Keep your head up and trust your gut.

Dating Comment ME if you are not interested in dating at this point either.

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